Measures To Take Prior To Meeting Up With Your Chat Line (Soon-To-Be) Lover For The First Time
At some point in your chat line relationship, speaking via telephone may not be enough for you. We, as human beings, crave human connection and physical touch, and if you’re feeling it with your boo you’re going to want to push up on them! It’s only natural to crave that eye-to-eye, skin-to-skin, first-date contact from the person who you are crushing on. With all of the excitement that will no doubt come along with meeting up with your lovebird for the first time, you may overlook important safety precautions that you should take. We know they might not feel like a stranger, but you never really know anybody. Your safety should always be your priority. Once that is taken care of, it’s time to basque in the beauty that is your chat line babe.
You should always share your location with someone that you trust/are very close to, whether that be a friend, a family member or a co-worker. That way they not only have the address where you say you are going to be, but they can track your phone and follow you wherever you go just in case things go awry/you decide to switch locations or go to a more secluded spot. You have a Smartphone. Now is the time to use it for something that is actually beneficial!
Always snap a pic of your boo/their driver’s license and send it to a friend of yours. That way, if anything were to happen, (knock on wood,) someone would be able to identify him with 100% certainty. Add his/her name as well as as many details as you possibly can. If you for some reason decide that it is a good idea to hop into their car, make sure to take a picture of their license plate and shoot that over to a friend prior to slipping into the passenger seat.
Meet in public. Always meet in public. Get to know your boo within the presence of others. It is always better to be safe than sorry. If your chat line pal makes you feel like you are being ridiculous or making excuses as to why you should not meet up in public, it is absolutely time to bail. No good story started out that way…unless the story involves role play.
Listen To Your Gut
Listen. To. Your. Gut. It is the hardest thing to do but also the easiest thing to feel. Do not judge what you are feeling, simply listen to it. Think of your gut as your mom – she is here to protect you at all costs. We don’t know how mothers do it, but they always end up knowing best. Red flag? Jet outta there ASAP.
Do your research. Go online and look up your boo. If you can’t find anything on them in this day and age, that could be a huge red flag.
If you want to go the extra step, you can pay a couple of bucks and look to make sure they don’t have any online records/any skeletons in their closet that you should know about.
Lastly, make sure that your chat line lovebug makes sure that you are doing all of this – don’t be embarrassed. They need to know that if anything were to happen to you, there would be consequences for them. It sounds dramatic but people are unpredictable. Have fun but do your due diligence and protect your life, because you are worth it.