Obstacles To Finding The One On A Chat Line, And How To Get Over Them

By Brad Jeffries on October 27th, 2020 in Chat Lines

Finding that person who is your perfect other half is one of the hardest things to accomplish in life. There are wars fought for love and most of the greatest art in the world is based upon the idea of finding a soulmate. It’s no secret that there are obstacles to achieving that once-in-a-lifetime connection. Although it’s not an impossible feat. People are falling in love every day, you just have to know where to look to find the person who is right for you.

A chat line is a nice street to travel down when looking for a soulmate. It works because everyone who calls into a phone dating platform is looking for some sort of connection. Whether they call just to chat or are seeking a full-blown romance, they are looking to get to know another person. When you walk down the street or into a bar, most people are trying to do their own thing. So yo have that going for you when you call into a phone dating line. But many chat line veterans will tell you that finding love on a chat line doesn’t come without its hurdles.

Dating over the phone is a unique way to navigate the dating scene. Again, it can work. However, being aware of what makes it difficult for some can help make it easier for you. Below you’ll find. List of the hurdles that come along with chat line dating, and what you can do to beat them.


It’s Not About Physical Attraction

This can be a huge draw for people who love chat line dating. It’s not about physical appearance. Falling in love without the pressure of looking perfect makes for a sound environment for feelings to grow. The downside is that sometimes physical attraction is the initial spark that sets off a firework romance. Sexual energy can sometimes take a backseat within the confines of chat line dating. That’s not what you really want. To get over the hurdle of losing physical attraction, you can do other things to increase sexual tension and desire while on the line. Make your voice a bit lower and sexier while chatting, and bring up topics that have a hint of sexual innuendo.


You Can’t Gauge Reactions

When you are on a real-life date, you can tell how the person is responding to you based on their bodily reactions. Perhaps they are nodding their head in agreement, or looking down at the table (signaling you to change the subject). You don’t get these natural cues when you are chat line dating. There are some things you can do to combat the lack of visual clues. For one, you can make it easier on your date by making agreeable noises as they speak. Clues like, “Mhmm” or “I totally understand” help your date know that you are listening and engaged. Conversely, to figure out how your date feels, you can ask them questions to get an understanding for their feelings rather than relying on their body language.


It’s Easy To Get Distracted

People naturally multitask while they are on the phone. The phone itself has become an extension of our beings, and we are so used to being on the phone while driving, cooking dinner, or running errands. But it’s important to note that when you meet someone on a chat line, you are on a date. You want to give that person your undivided attention. That’s why it’s a good idea to call into the line when you are sitting alone somewhere quiet with nothing around to steal your attention away. Don’t try to multitask. Just live in the moment of the chat line date.


Not Every Call Leads To Romance

Think of chat line dating like speed dating in a way. You have the chance to meet a ton of potential partners in a short amount of time. No, not every connection is going to be a romantic one. And truly, not everyone is ready to settle down. You might have several awkward dates before you find someone worth pursuing and that can be frustrating. But don’t get discouraged. The way to beat this obstacle is to just keep trying. You have to keep calling in knowing that eventually, it’ll work out for you. Once you do meet the person that keeps you up at night, fantasizing about your future with them, you’ll be so grateful that you held out and kept trying.


People BS Over The Phone

Just like when people hide behind computer screens to troll others online, the phone offers a level of disguise that might encourage folks to stretch the truth or even lie. It can be challenging to figure out who you can actually trust while you are chat line dating. There is no way to avoid people who naturally stretch the truth. The best way to weed out people who are full of it in the phone dating scene is to trust your gut. For example, if you meet a guy who tells you that he is interested in a long-term relationship, but wants to meet up at his apartment that night for drinks, maybe proceed with caution. Actions speak louder than words, so pay attention to what your phone chat matches do vs. what they say over the phone.


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